the men and the women behind them...

One legend tales the life of a knight so powerful that he use to be consider the devil itself. This is one different vision of the story of that famous knight called Arthur. Yes the story of this man who was able to conquer the middle age age as the strongest of the kings that ever exist. Only surpassed by the great and first of the kings Giglamesh.
Arthur was always considered as the strongest, cleverest and honorable of the knights. Unfortunately, even the strongest of the men always find his weakness in the things they love. The biggest of the ironies is that what makes them strong is also what makes them weak and eventually destroy them. Have been the eternal history of the world. We can see it in all the great men and all the great situations. Once a hero involves their feelings it becomes weak and end up paying loose in the time as an epic legend. Just to mention some of them we can mention people like Julius Cesar, Athur, Napoleon, Neron claudio cesar, Hercules and sanson. All of them and many mother ones like John lennon, or kurk Cobain, end up in misery after been stripped down by women. The thing is that i found out the reason of this and is basically the fact that they can or tried to please their loves in a way they feel comfortable, or in the other side of the coin try to give them the world without concidering that in the way they do it that is not even what they actually wants.
Having the previous ideas in mind might sound that the women are the decadence of the world. But is not like that, all the tragic endings on it was for a several list of factors that implies the interaction between this couple. Between this i can mention:
1.incapacity of visualize an ideal but realistic future between them.
2.The men when they think in scarifying or giving the world to the people they love. They enclose themselves and don't realize that in that process they alienate even of the person they love and once cracks start to appears in the communication between them everything goes in decadence.
3.Women are complex beings, and to live with them the constant updates between them have to exist. If not is like eating rice only every single day of the life and of course one of them will eventually get tired of it.
4.The perspective of love of men are different than from women, one is rational and the other is emotional. So there is no match on it BUT we have to consider that it can be a connection because one can complement and if that happens a greatest and stronger love can born.
5.Even having a connection between the logical love and the sentimental love of the men and the women. The men will never be able to understand the heart of the women because there is nothing to understand there. Only when the man start to let himself goes by the feeling maybe and only then might be an oportunity to make the connection stronger; but the men also have to understand that UNDERSTANDING is not a must so DEAL WITH IT! However, that is not important as long as both parts can be tolerant in a variety of situations they will affront during the life.
6.The true love of a man is eternal because when it happens some parts of his feelings connect with the logical part and that distortion his perspective of the life. But in the contrary the love of a women is bigger and that is why she can actually transform it into something else during the time. Specially if there is someone else who is able to touch her sensitive part. None of this perspectives are wrong cuz is part of the male/female nature so we dont have to complain or feel disappointed because of that. Just take it in consideration and if we can work with it for the good of ourselves.
There are so many thousands of other stuff but the blindness in my mind right now can let me talk properly. What i can say about this and the basic idea is that yes some times men cannot understand or love women as suppose to be. The “la vita é rosa” doens't exist but there are some tones that can be pretty similar to that. To find the correct tone that fit both is the important.. the communication is important no matter what issues and adversities are in the relationship the problems, dreams and happiness are not from individuals anymore ARE FROM BOTH!
Well also we have to be patient and if someone doesn't fit us we also have to let it go no? Everything in pro of the relationship.

Ja ne...

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